Mila Dress Fabienne Chapot - Nude Heels Primark
Hi gorgeous Sunnies! I hope you are all well! :)
I'm doing great, things have been going smooth at my side and I'm excited. Excited about this blog post that is kind of out of my comfort zone but ohh well, it's all good. Let's get in to it!
First of all, I have a question for you, you that have been following me from the beginning.
I started blogging in 2014. Some of you have been following me from the beginning and have seen my style (evolution) throughout the years. It is fashion that really motivated me to start this mini fashion world (page) of mine because I love everything about it. I cant remember if back then I knew what my real style was but I know for sure that SIMPLICITY has always been a part of my personal style. Today I can describe my style in 3 words: SIMPLE - COMFORTABLE - CUTE. In that order. And no, simple is not the same as comfortable, there is a difference.
My question for you is; do you think that my style has changed throughout the years?
In my opinion, I don't think that my look and personal style have changed. However, what I tend to wear nowadays has changed a little. This is because this whole thing depends on how my lifestyle used to be (your girl was student) and what it is now (madame became a working active woman). I have always gone for and I still go for the simplicity though. I love to wear comfy clothes and cute pieces that make me feel good ànd look good. Like this beautiful iconic dress from Fabienne Chapot! :D
Fabienne Chapot is a brand that has been built by a this energetic creator from the Netherlands that follows her heart, trusts her intuition – and dares to dream big. And doing so by building a team of like-minded, strong people around her. This essence comes back in their designs and the women who wear them. Fabienne Chapot believes in inspiring all women to feel their best. Best about themselves and the way they look. The house of FC dares women to dress a bit more outspoken, through a strong use of colour, print and details. (Link here) .
We have this brand (and this exact same dress at a discount) in our store where I work so if you want to discover this brand and/or get cute summer dresses and more, you know the adress - always welcome!
Last week thursday at my fashion formation for work I met the representatives of the brand, Michelle and Fleur. Such beautiful and kind people from Holland, I loved their accent! They presented us (the Juttu Crew) the FC W19 collection and what amazed me was their enthousiasm about the brand and their new collection! They were both dressed in FC, the whole outfits to the accessories - so awesome! Their presentation was good and they explained everything so well, such a good job they did! See, some people can have an impact on you and they kinda had on me. I was concentrated during their presentation but they made me dream a little about my own future brand... #positiveenergy ! :)
Talking about positive energy, the brand believes in POSITIVE ENERGY! Yaaasss, how great is that!!! I didn't know that and this is what makes me love the brand even more! Not only for their beautiful fashion pieces but also for what the brand stands for! Each piece has that extra thing (print, color, detail, ..) that makes a woman more confident when wearing it! I mean, look at that "Mila Dress - Feeling Peachy" that I am wearing on the pictures and look at me hahahah! Well thàt is what I call simple, comfortable, cute and .... sexy/elegant, grown up, lady like, confident etc etc!
Ohh and another topic - my sexyness!
First of all, I don't consider myself as someone sexy. That is just what I think about me. When you think about or pronounce the name EyoSunny, I don't think that sexy is the thing you think about, is it...? That is just not me and I don't feel, see nor think that I look sexy - periodt. So why writing about it then? (roll the eyes again)
Someone had a comment about a picture of mine two weeks ago, saying that I looked sexy on it. Surprised and not sure if I should take it as a compliment (explaining why through this article...), my reaction was like "REALLY?!". You can imagine the face I put up hhahah ! Then we started this conversation about "being sexy". And no we didn't end up talking about sex (cuz I can read your minds hahhhahah) but for real though, this was quite interesting! And this is the reason I'm writing about it! Keep reading!
I told the person I was having the conversation with that being sexy is not my kind of vibe/style. Being sexy is not in my personality and when getting dressed, I never think of being/trying to be sexy (for no one)! That is just not me and I just don't care about that!
Then the person asked (or comfirmed) this: "So you just don't like to be sexy?". I had to think for a while about this question and the answer on that because to be honest with you, it is true that I don't like to dress up too much. Meaning, and no offense to some of the women in this world, I dont like to exagerate! Not in makeup, not in my hairstyles, not in my behaviour, ... in NOTHING!
And sometimes for me the word sexy can be interpreted in a wrong way which makes it a negative energy and am not here for this. Being sexy (all the time) is not necessary (for me). So yes indeed, I don't like to be/look sexy. No I don't. I don't like to be attractive because I don't want to attract (the wrong) people.
How ever, I'M SEXY AND I KNOW IT! I can be sexy though, I can be very sexy if I want to, ... but putting it on the show ànd on purpose?.... no thanks (because that wouldn't be sexy in my opinion.)!
Anyway, okey, I may not like to be sexy but I know how to be it and I have some tips on how to look/be sexy . Here you have them:
1) Be yourself
Knowing and remaining who you are is the sexiest thing ever. Because it means that you wont have to change anything from you or being faking things about you to impress others. #selflove is important and being true to yourself is so powerful and being that powerful is sexy.
2) Make some effort - get it done!
Make some effort in everything you do. Don't do things half. Most of the time when you give up, to chear you up people will say "oh at least you tried".. and oh yes that is good. But what's better, is when trying things, try to finish them. Get it done! Its like runnings the 20kms of Brussels for example. You can't participate and stop in the middle to quit and say "at least I tried" ? Keep your goal(s) in mind! You can run the 20kms, stop in the middle to take a deep breath (or go for a pee in the bushes) and then keep on going by walking to the finish line - goal! You did that!
3) Be the cleanest version of yourself
This one is actually a part of the "make some effort" part. Make effort to look good, especially for yourself! This means to get a shower, smell good, ..., have clean nails etc etc. And you don't have to go for those fake ones, just make sure that your own nails are clean and thats it - simple. Like I said, no need to exagerate, be and stay yourself!
Also wash and cumb your hair. Is your wig old, get a new one or make sure that your old wig looks clean and fresh (yes that is possible, I do it all the time hahahh tryna save some cash here). You don't need to wear make up all the time but a little make up can make that little difference. I only wear heavy make up for special occasions so eyebrows did, mascara on the lashes and lipbalm on the lips (a must) are my faves. These are just little things to add to your beautiful face to look more "awake" and that is in my opinion sexy.
4) Wear clothes that are comfortable
I was going to say wear clothes that fit but that would be a lie because I wear a lot of vintage clothes and most of them are far from fitting right hahaha! Just wear clothes that are comfortable. Did some research and I have found an article somewhere that said to wear the color red if you want to be sexy. Uhmn let me just tell you this; just wear what you want and in any color you like, but know what makes you look bright and lifts your look up! Sometimes I see girls/women that wear clothes that hug their body. It hugs then so hard they that they hardly can breath. Some girls/women also wear clothes that are too short. So short that they constantly are pulling the clothe down and am like, really...?! (I just don't get it!) Not judging, everybody has the right to do what they want, but to be honest with you I don't think that wearing things you're uncomfortable in is sexy, at all. Beside, you have to know that wearing thight clothes ain't good for your health. I'm not a doctor but I'm just saying... You should know.
5) Be strong and independent
Alright, this one is a little bit tricky but since we're in 2019 and almost all women want to come up for themselves #feminism #girlpower etc... As a women I believe that we have to take responsability of all this we are in. Meaning that we are very strong creations of God. God made us well able to achieve everything in life and that is why we have so much responsabilities. I'm not saying that we don't need any help from anyone in life but sometimes we tend to forget how good we actually are in doing stuff. We depend on others while we have a lot of talents. Like I said in part 2, get it done.
If there is something you have to do and you can it by yourself, just make it finished. Don't wait for someone ('s help) to do it! An independent and confident girl/woman that can do (all) things by herself - sexy!
6) Feel yourself
Succinctly - When you feel happy then just be extremely happy. When you feel good about something then just be! Simple! Don't be pulled out by someone else's opinion of how you should feel. Just be you, feel yourself and be happy.
7) You don't have to show skin
I also have read somewhere that you have to show skin to be happy. Uhmm what about NOPE?! (roll the eyes again). It is true that when you are wearing something (comfortable) and you are showing some skin - I said SOME - well that looks sexy. But you don't have to show skin. You can also look sexy without all that skin showing. In the winter you can be sexy with a turtle neck, jeans and boots for example. By the way FCs winter collection is going to be super bomb - can't wait! :) Even with a full jumpsuite you can be sexy so no, no need to walk in your nudie just because you want to be sexy. And if you show some skin, know how to balance the whole look.
Keep in mind, you don(t want to attract the wrong people.
8) Take your health very serious
Theres nothing more sexy than a healthy body. Like for real, if your body is in shape and healthy packed then the rest will be easy and will come with the flow. It is important to eat well. I'm against diet programs because I feel like it is actually not that healthy. I just think the most important this is to know what you eat! Do some research about every product you (like to) eat. Is it good for you, do you really need it as much as you think you need it? Ask yourself some questions because it is important! (Seems like everything in this post is important hahaha, ohh well...)
When you know what your "diet" it then you also have to keep your body in shape, go to the gym. I mean, get your WORK OUT done! I will probably explain my workout routine one day on the blog but I don't go to the gym (anymore). As I said, be independent. You don't have to depend on people (your friends to come ith you, your coach/personal trainer) or the Basic Fit to get your workout done. To get fit by yourself and at home is very possible. All you need is discipline and self motivation!
Another thing, visit your doctor at least ones a year! Just for a check up to see how your body's doing.
9) Be kind and patient
How can I explain this? Uhmmnn, a kind and patient girl/woman is so more attractive than an nervous bitch. A kind and patient person is that is the kind of person that people want and can easily approach because being kind and patient reflects peace. Isn't it what everyone is looking for, peace? :)
Last but not least, SMILE! You're beautiful when you smile! And a beautiful girl/woman that smiles, that is very sexy! :)
Voila, my 10 tips on how to be sexy ! I hope these can help you out but more important, I hope you feel good in your body and that you are happy! :) Besos!
Salut mes magnifiques Sunnies ! J'espère que vous allez tous trés bien! Moi je vais très bien, tout ce passe bien de mon coté et je suis excité. Excité a propos de cet article qui est un peu hors de ma zone de confort mais bon, je le sens bien héhéh - allons-y !
Tout d'abord, j'ai une question pour vous, vous qui me suivez depuis le début. J'ai commencé à bloguer en 2014. Certains d'entre vous m'ont suivi depuis le début et ont vu mon style évoluer au fil des ans. C'est la mode qui m'a vraiment motivé à lancer ce petit univers à moi ou je vous parle de la mode et autre choses que j'adore. Je ne peux pas me rappeler si à l'époque je savais quel était mon vrai style, mais je sais avec certitude que la SIMPLICITÉ a toujours été une partie de mon style personnel.
Aujourd'hui je peux décrire mon style en 3 mots: SIMPLE - COMFORTABLE - CUTE. Dans cet ordre. Et non, simple n'est pas la même chose que confortable, il y a une différence.
La question que je voudrais vous poser est la suivante : pensez-vous que mon style a changé au fil des ans ?
A mon avis, je ne pense pas que mon look et mon style personnel aient changé. Cependant, ce que j'ai tendance à porter de nos jours a un peu changé. C'est parce que tout cela dépend de la façon dont mon style de vie était (Emmy était étudiante) et de ce qu'il est maintenant (madame est devenue une femme active qui travaille). J'ai toujours été en faveur de la simplicité et aujourd'hui encore je suis toujours en faveur de la simplicité. J'aime porter des vêtements confortables et de jolies pièces qui font que je me sens bien et me donnent bonne mine. Comme cette jolie robe de Fabienne Chapot ! :D
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